Some couples find themselves caught in a long-term separation rather than a divorce. The reasons may involve money, religious grounds, family pressures or a spouse's refusal to divorce. Some separate, clinging to the hope that they will reconcile; however, one study...
Divorce
What to do with the house?
Couples planning to divorce have many important decisions that impact their lives for years to come. Except for custody and parenting plans, few decisions are more important than what to do with the home. It’s typically one of your most valuable assets, but it is...
How to split debt during a divorce
Nearly everyone going into a divorce knows they will divide up assets, but they may not realize that couples also need to divide up their marital debts. From credit cards to mortgages, both parties share the responsibility of repayment. It can be challenging to spread...
5 mistakes you can avoid during divorce
Divorce is often considered one of the most challenging experiences you can endure. The good news is that things improve over time as you rebuild your life into one that is more positive and rewarding. Despite the turbulence during this change, it is essential to...
Communication during and after the divorce is essential for parents
Lack of communication is a common contributor often cited in divorce. Even if the couple has good communication skills, there may be other significant reasons that caused the communication breakdown. Now that the couple has taken steps to end the marriage, it may be...
7 signs that the marriage is over
The details of each marriage and divorce are unique to the people involved. Generally speaking, the decision to end it often revolves around growing apart over time or losing a unified focus, such as finding purpose after the kids grow up and move out. Sometimes, it...
Do not ignore retirement plans during divorce negotiations
Financial security is one of the major concerns for many when planning their divorce. The issue is particularly acute for those who did not work outside the home or have seen their income limited by family obligations. There may be a long list of shared assets,...
Issues to consider when a divorce involves a special needs child
Every divorce will involve particular challenges. Few are more difficult than addressing the needs of the children, particularly if they are special needs children. Regardless of how well the parents get along or are effective as coparents, there will be unique...
How courts decide custody
Many couples planning their divorce will choose to share custody (known as parental responsibilities in Colorado) if there are children. Nevertheless, some couples will disagree on the other parent's rights, duties and obligations, leading to one of the most complex...
Is the marriage over?
Marriages are a complex blend of rewards and challenges. The balance hopefully skews positive, and the benefits outweigh the shortcomings. Still, that balance may not always be clear, so it is good to do a mental check-in to see if the relationship is everything...